The First Conversation: Discovery & Setting Expectations
The first conversation with a client (or with your leadership if you are in-house) sets the trajectory for the entire engagement. Get it right, and you build a foundation of clarity that carries you through months of work. Get it wrong, and you spend those months untangling misaligned expectations.
This lesson covers what to ask, what to listen for, how to spot red flags early, and the one thing you must push back on from day one.
Two Kinds of Clients Walk Through the Door
Every ESG reporting engagement starts from one of two positions, and you need to know which one you are dealing with immediately.
The Fresh Starter This company has never published a sustainability or ESG report. They may have seen competitors do it, heard about it at a conference, or received a nudge from investors. They come to you saying "we want this", but they do not really know what "this" is. They have no existing structure, no data templates, no established process.
With fresh starters, your job is bigger than writing a report. You are building the entire process from scratch: selecting standards, designing templates, educating departments on what data to collect, and managing expectations about how long this will actually take.
The "Mature" Company This company has one or two previous ESG reports. They come to you saying "we want to build on what we have" or "we want to innovate." The word "innovate" comes up a lot, but they rarely know what they mean by it. They want some newness, something that feels different from last year, but they cannot articulate what that looks like.
With mature companies, the advantage is that data collection processes exist (even if they are imperfect) and the organization has some familiarity with what goes into a report. The challenge is that they often want things to feel new without understanding what is actually possible or desirable.
The common thread across both types: even at the very start, most companies are not clear about what they want, what the purpose is, or what the report should ultimately say. Your first job is to help them find that clarity, not to assume they already have it.
What to Ask in the Discovery Call
Your first meeting is a discovery session. You are not there to present a proposal or show off your knowledge of GRI standards. You are there to listen and ask questions that the client may not have considered.
The essential questions:
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Why now? What triggered the decision to do an ESG report this year? Was it a board directive, investor pressure, a regulatory deadline, peer activity? The answer tells you the real motivation.
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Who asked for it? Is this coming from the CEO, the board, the sustainability team, or an external stakeholder? The answer tells you where the power sits and who needs to be satisfied.
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Who is the audience? Who will actually read this report? Investors? Rating agencies? Regulators? Customers? Employees? "Everyone" is not an acceptable answer: push for specifics.
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What is the deadline, and why? Is there a hard deadline tied to an AGM, a regulatory filing, or a rating cycle? Or is the deadline aspirational ("we would like it by Q3")? The distinction matters enormously.
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Have you done this before? If yes, what worked and what did not? What feedback did they receive on previous reports? If no, what peer reports have they seen that they liked?
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What is your data readiness? Do they have sustainability data organized somewhere, or will everything need to be collected from scratch? This question alone can tell you whether this is a three-month engagement or a six-month one.
What Clients Will Not Tell You Voluntarily
There are two things you almost always have to dig for, because clients will not volunteer them:
The real motivation. A company might say "we want to communicate our sustainability journey to stakeholders." The real story might be that their largest investor sent a formal letter requesting climate risk disclosures, and the board panicked. The stated reason and the actual reason are often different. You need to uncover the actual reason because that is what the report needs to address.
The real deadline. Clients will give you an aspirational deadline: the date they wish the report could be done. The actual deadline is usually later, tied to a specific event. Understanding the difference prevents you from making unrealistic commitments and then being blamed for missing them.
Think of the first conversation like a doctor's initial consultation. The patient comes in saying "my back hurts." But the doctor does not just treat the back - they ask about lifestyle, history, other symptoms, and what triggered the visit. The presenting complaint is rarely the full story. Same with ESG reporting: "we want a sustainability report" is the presenting complaint. Your job is to diagnose what they actually need.
Recognizing Red Flags Early
Not every engagement will be smooth, and certain signals in the first conversation should put you on alert:
"We want it done in four weeks." Any timeline that sounds unrealistically short probably is. ESG reports take 2.5 to 3 months under ideal conditions, and ideal conditions almost never exist. A client who demands an impossibly fast turnaround either does not understand the process or is setting you up to fail.
"Our team already knows exactly what we want." Be cautious when stakeholders assume they understand ESG reporting better than the person they hired to do it. This can lead to constant friction: they will question your recommendations, second-guess your structure, and assume errors where there are none. Confidence is great; overconfidence without expertise creates problems.
"We will get you everything you need quickly." Data collection is the number one reason engagements take longer than planned. When a client assures you that data will come fast, they are almost always underestimating how scattered and incomplete their information is. Plan for delays regardless of what they promise.
Nobody from leadership is in the first meeting. If the kickoff meeting is attended only by junior team members without decision-making authority, the engagement will struggle with slow approvals and unclear direction. Ideally, at least one senior stakeholder should be present at the start.
Red flag in action: A company reaches out in January saying they need their ESG report ready by February-end because their AGM is in March. They have never published one before. Their data is not organized. They want GRI-aligned reporting with a materiality assessment.
This is a setup for failure. A first-time report with no existing data processes cannot be done in six weeks. The right move is to have an honest conversation: either the timeline extends, or the scope narrows significantly (perhaps a summary ESG disclosure for the AGM, with a full report to follow later). Saying yes to an impossible timeline does not make you helpful; it makes you the person who gets blamed when reality hits.
The One Thing You Must Push Back On: Timelines
If there is a single piece of advice that separates experienced ESG professionals from newcomers, it is this: always push back on the client's proposed timeline.
They will always want it done early. It will always be because of them that it takes long. And if you do not set realistic expectations from day one, they will blame you when the report is late.
Here is what happens in a typical engagement: the client says they want the report in three months. You agree. In month one, you send the data template. The client takes three weeks to even start filling it. In month two, you are chasing departments for data that keeps coming in incomplete. In month three, you have written the report but the client's review process takes four weeks. The report is delivered in month five. And the client says you were late.
If you had set a realistic four-to-five month timeline from the start (explaining that data collection and reviews are the biggest time drivers), the same outcome would be seen as on-track instead of a failure.
Setting timelines is not about predicting the future. It is about setting expectations that account for the reality of how organizations work. Build in buffer for data collection delays, review cycles, and approval chains. If you finish early, that is a pleasant surprise. If you finish on time, you have met expectations. Never promise a timeline you do not control.
Structuring the First Meeting
A good first meeting follows a rough structure:
- Introductions and context (10 minutes): Who is in the room, what roles they play, and a brief overview of the engagement.
- Discovery questions (20-30 minutes): Work through the questions listed above. Listen more than you talk.
- Process overview (15 minutes): Walk the client through the high-level process: peer benchmarking, data collection, writing, reviews, design, delivery. Set the expectation that this is a collaborative process, not a handoff.
- Timeline discussion (15 minutes): Propose a realistic timeline with milestones. Be specific about what depends on the client (data, reviews, approvals).
- Next steps (5 minutes): Agree on immediate actions: who sends what by when.
Document everything from this meeting in a follow-up email. This is not bureaucracy: it is your reference point for the entire engagement. When stakeholders later say "that is not what we agreed," you have the email.
The Takeaway
Your first conversation is the most underrated part of the entire engagement. It is easy to treat it as a formality, a quick chat before the "real work" begins. But the clarity you build (or fail to build) in this conversation echoes through every phase that follows. Ask the hard questions, push back on unrealistic timelines, and document everything. The rest of the process becomes dramatically easier when the foundation is solid.
Key Takeaways
- 1Identify whether your client is a Fresh Starter (no prior report, needs process built from scratch) or a Mature Company (has past reports, wants improvement) - your approach differs significantly
- 2Ask six essential discovery questions: Why now? Who asked for it? Who is the audience? What is the deadline and why? Have you done this before? What is your data readiness?
- 3Dig for the real motivation and the real deadline - the stated reason and actual reason are often different, and aspirational timelines are not hard deadlines
- 4Always push back on the client's proposed timeline - data collection delays and review cycles will extend it, and setting realistic expectations upfront prevents blame later
- 5Watch for red flags: impossibly short timelines, overconfident stakeholders, promises of fast data delivery, and absence of leadership from the kickoff
- 6Document everything from the first meeting in a follow-up email - it becomes your reference point when expectations diverge later